It’s about that time again at the University of Tennessee.
It is no secret that rush has become an All-American phenomenon that has taken over the Southeastern Conference. While Greek Life dates all the way back to the 18th century, it has gained an astounding amount of popularity in recent years due to a huge influence of the media.
Much like any growing phenomena in the light of the media, there is also a great deal of controversy regarding the rush experience and Greek Life as a whole. Some could argue that joining a sorority or fraternity is merely an expensive social club providing a leg up on the social hierarchy totem pole. Some could argue that it is one big party – and this might be the case for some people.
On the other hand, rushing a sorority or fraternity is also an opportunity to meet like-minded people who share the same values. Finding people who share the same values is an important aspect in college, especially if you are an incoming freshman, but at what cost?
Figuratively, the cost of the rush experience is time consuming, and arguably emotionally challenging. The week-long-and-some-change process requires waking up early, presenting yourself in a professional way, and being prepared for any conversation that may arise when talking to members of a house.
Literally, the cost of rushing and potentially pledging a sorority or fraternity is nothing short of expensive. Dues have different price ranges depending on the house, not including additional expenses that one might be expected to pay for various social events.
In an attempt to seem as unbiased as possible for being a member of a sorority, I believe that rush is what you make of it. As I stated that the figurative cost of the rush experience is emotionally challenging, I also believe that it is one of the most rewarding processes that one can experience in their college career. While I was not a typical fall rush candidate, and chose the continuous open bidding route after returning abroad, I would be lying if I said I was not anxious to rush.
As a newly college freshman, the only insight I had to the world of Greek Life was a stigma of parties, pretty people and private rituals — which is a totally valid, but not entirely accurate, relatable outlook to those not affiliated with Greek Life.
My stigma prior to rushing was just that – a stigma. Never could I have dreamed of the opportunities that were included in this figurative and literal cost when I chose to pledge.
From having an academic buddy to guide me through a rough semester, to the philanthropies I have had the privilege to partake in, the scholarships that immensely helped me, and the long-lasting memories and people that came from it all, I am grateful I decided to rush at UTK.
As the fall rush season is fast approaching, have an open mind. Don’t let controversy from the media, or anywhere for that matter, impact which pathway you go. You might end up hating rush, but you’ll also meet some awesome people along the way. Or, you might love it, and find your lifelong friends.
Ansley Graves is a junior at UT this year studying business. She can be reached at [email protected].
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