A moment, if you will, on luck. Many people believe that luck is portioned
out by the cosmos. By this, they imply that luck is directly related to the
individual, and not by the circumstances. Were this the case, the majority
of lucky people would live within the confines of our little nation. As
this is statistically impossible, the very notion that luck is a
predestined fabrication of fate is laughable. Instead, I like to think that
luck is directly related to the situation at hand. This can be terribly
inconvenient for those of us who encounter situations on a daily basis. As
all of you attempt, in vain, to wrap your brains around that bizarre
statement, consider it merely a moment of bad luck, and move on.
The holiday season is officially upon us. I say officially to distinguish
between the actual holiday season and the endless stream of bogus holidays
that have sprung up over the years. Take Groundhog Day, for instance. The
idea of setting aside an entire 24-hour period in order to celebrate marmot
prognostications is beyond me. I will probably never understand it, and it
makes me very happy. But I digress, and point my attentions toward the real
holiday of the year. The one that gets my blood pumping and my ulcer
swelling. I'm talking about the commercial nightmare more often referred to
as Christmas. The older I get, the more I actually find myself enjoying
this holiday, despite the fact that it is a source of tremendous
torment.
The difficulties arise when I finally remember that I actually have to buy
gifts for my family. It's not that I don't enjoy spending my hard-earned
cash on my relatives, but they are very difficult people to shop for.
Unfortunately, luck is never on my side during the holiday season. What
little of it I have left by Thanksgiving becomes lost in a sea of beer and
Jack Daniels, leaving me to fend for myself the remaining month of the
year. Since commercial centers and I have a very complicated relationship,
my luck further deteriorates over the course of the season. And let me tell
you, the last place you want to be with an empty tank of luck is the mall
during Christmas. If you want to survive the experience, that is.
First of all, every member of my family is insane. Since I am also a little
off upstairs, one would think that I could shop for them easily. The
problem, however, is that all of them are insane in different ways, making
the shopping experience even more infuriating. I would have an easier time
shopping for Pat Buchanan in a gay porno shop than shopping for any member
of my family. The revel in their fickleness, and have been known to
completely change their minds in mid-sentence. Not that I am a prize to
shop for, but these people dramatically redefine the word difficult. In any
case, the storm of compulsive spending and incessant wrapping has begun,
and I find myself caught firmly within its torrents. After three trips to
the mall, I have bought nothing. I have walked around a lot, and had more
than a few cocktails, but have come no closer to concluding my shopping
than I had a month ago. My purchasing ineffectiveness, coupled with our
impending finals, has just about driven me to the brink. One more Fa-la-la
and Santa's gonna be walking with a limp next year.
So, as another semester draws to a close, I face the hard truth that I will
wind up, in all likelihood, in Wal-Mart at 2 a.m. Christmas Eve attempting
to wrestle away a Walkman from an elderly woman. I would like to get
through at least one Christmas without pummeling an unsuspecting senior
citizen, but you've gotta do what you've gotta do. Anyway, I am not going
to let the pressure get to me. Perhaps my family will be satisfied with
whatever I buy them. Perhaps they'll even use the gifts I get them, instead
of sending them to that gift limbo where they vanish forever. That would be
nice, but it's not going to happen. The fact is I just don't know how to
shop. I never have any idea what they want, and can't even begin to guess.
I will spend my money on a wide variety of baubles that will go unused,
falsely appreciated, and will eventually fade to the nothingness of memory.
Thus, the cycle of Christmas will be complete. So, as the holidays draw
near, I advise all of you to start shopping now. Just don't forget to go to
your finals.
Opinion: Christmas shopping depends on element of luck
From the series UNTITLED COLUMN by Eldridge Doubleday
Fri Dec 03, 1999
| Modified: Sat Aug 06, 2005 02:04 p.m.